What are the foundations of your friendships and relationships? Many individuals are entangled in fleeting relationships because of their desire to appease unmet needs. I will inform you engaging in any relationship to fulfill your "needs" is not the answer. A person can't fulfill your unmet needs but they certainly can add on to them. Any relationship formed from a broken foundation leads to hurt, unnecessary baggage and drama. Many people jump into relationships without befriending their partner first. Any quality relationship begins with friendship.
Friendships are also fleeting, there are many friendships that tend to lack respect and boundaries. In order for any friendship to remain healthy boundaries must be addressed. This also depends on your preference of friends, many people do not mind associating with a crowd that encourages them to engage in questionable activities. Other people prefer friends that add value to their life. Ask yourself this, Are you surrounding yourself with individuals that are adding or subtracting from your life? Many people settle for mediocre friendships and relationships because of the fear of being alone.
I challenge you to take a step back and check the foundations of your friendships. Are they damaged? fruitful? Are you surrounding yourself with people that challenge you to be the best version of you or are you affiliating with people who bring out the worst in you. Either way, the choice is yours of who you choose to integrate with.
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